Who looks outside, dreams; who looks inside, awakes.

If you are looking for child or adult therapy, group or couple's therapy, neuropsychological testing, or psychological testing, we have experts in that.

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ABOUT TEMA

Happiness is a habit worth forming. We can help in the process!

Working With Children

Not very long ago, children were perceived as miniature adults with bad table manners. Eventually, their uniqueness was discovered, and the need to understand childhood as extremely  impactful stage of life was understood. 

Couple's & Family Therapy

Addressing tension or pain in relationships can make each individual happier and more open-minded. Let’s work together to build honest communication to repair and heal.

Testing & Evaluations

Testing may show the way to the most effective treatment for both, adults and children. Therefore, quite frequently testing should be  a part of high-quality psychological services.

 

Working With Adults

The notion of “asking for help” or “going to a shrink” is often seen as quite allien for many people, especially those of us who are self-sufficient; those who manage life fairly well and help others manage theirs. 

Our Staff

Our versatile and highly professional staff makes therapy effective and makes it affordable   

About TEMA Therapy

TEMA therapy is here to help you in a world that is uncertain and sometimes lonely. As a multicultural and multilingual center, we believe that tapping into your culture, language, and family roots can help you on your journey.

Don't wait any longer.

Seek the help you need and deserve!

Contact us today to schedule a consultation and learn more about our unique approach to providing effective help tailored to your needs.

In order to find the therapist who will be the most effective in helping you , we provide a 15- min free phone consultation with the director of the center, Dr. Irina Volynsky who will hear your needs and recommend the Best Therapist In New Jersey for your situation.

Amaury Hernandez​

Asking for help, validation, and support is increasingly normal and common. But it is often harder for men.

We are fathers, husbands, the guys… we are often expected to provide financially, support emotionally, lend a hand, fix that thing. Many of us were raised with the idea that men don’t cry. We are supposed to be Don Draper—strong, stoic, self-sufficient. Manly.

Men tend to be lonelier and more alienated. When did Saturdays are for the boys become Saturdays are for the chores? Medical science tells us it is unhealthy to live in this way; it shaves years off our lifespan.

So how about we don’t!

Every Wednesday at 6pm we gather for our men’s discussion group—led by yours truly—and talk. I don’t promise specific topics but I do know that we will be talking about our lives and our friends; about sex, our partners, and kids, economy and politics. We will be sharing (hence the confidentiality rule) some deep stuff and also shooting the shit. We’ll have a good time, in other words. I will be happy to share what I know about sports, nutrition, parenting but I would also be equally happy to hear what you know and what you care about. Come join us!

Get your free 15 minute consultation now!

We understand that the effectiveness of therapy is directly related to how well you click with the therapist. Here you can schedule a free 15-min consultation with a therapist of your choice

All our therapists are highly trained in state-of-the-art approaches

The choice of virtual or in person appointments

Specialists carefully matched with your individual needs

Ongoing support starting at your first call

Video, phone & messaging support available

Transparent, accessible and always on your terms

OUR STAFF

Meet our Therapists

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Dr. Irina Volynsky

Clinical Director

Specialty: Clinical psychologist working with adults, children and families. Testing and Therapy

Licenses: New York, New Jersey

Languages: English, Russian, Ukrainian

Dr. Emile T. Berk

Psychologist

Specialty: Clinical psychologist performing testing for adults, adolescents, and children.

Licenses: New York, New Jersey

Languages: English

Irina Bashkirov

Mental Health Counselor

Specialty: Adult and child therapy. Group therapy for adults

License: New Jersey

Languages: English, Russian, Hebrew

Andrew Roetman

Supervised Therapist

Specialty: Therapy and testing performed under the supervision of clinical director

Languages: English and Spanish

Natalia Rowe

Language and Feeding Specialist

Specialty: Speech-Language/Disphagia Therapist

Licenses: New York, New Jersey 

Languages: English, Russian

Amaury Hernandez

Behavioral Conditioning Coach

Specialty: Sensory Integration, Emotional Regulation, Competitive Sports Training

Certificates: Personal Trainer, Sensory Integration, Parkour

Languages: English, Spanish

Natallia Khamenka

Therapist

Specialty: Psychoanalysis and Psychotherapy

Licenses:  New Jersey – pending

Languages: English, Russian, Belarusian

Zhanna Beyl

Social Worker

Specialty: Psychotherapist working with teens, adults, couples, and families 

Licenses: New York, New Jersey

Languages: English, Russian

Katya Chizhova, LCSW

Clinical Social Worker

Specialty: Psychotherapist working with the elderly and people with acute and chronic medical conditions

Licenses: New York, New Jersey

Languages: English, Russian

Darina Konstorum

Clinical Mental Health Counselor

Speciality: Psychotherapist working with children, teens, and adults. Group therapy for adults.

Licenses: New Jersey

Languages: English, Russian

Tamara Kapustina

Health Coach & Personal Trainer

Specialty: Personal Trainer. Executing Functioning Trainer.

Languages: Russian, Ukrainian, English (Intermediate)

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We offer comprehensive online mental health treatment options to meet all of your needs.

Online Therapy

Ongoing support from licensed providers.

Couple's Therapy

Relationship-centered therapy that connects you and your partner.

Teen Therapy

Specialised therapy for ages 13-17.

Psychiatry

Evaluation and psychiatric medication management.

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To seek the help you need and deserve.

Contact us today to schedule a consultation and learn more about our unique approach to providing effective help tailored to your needs.

In order to find the therapist In New Jersey who will be the most effective in helping you, we provide a 15 min free  phone consultation with the director of the center, Dr. Irina Volynsky who will hear your needs and suggest the best therapist for your situation.

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Who benefits from our service?

I can't thank Tema Therapy enough for their incredible support in managing my ADHD. The therapists here are compassionate, knowledgeable, and understanding. They took the time to truly understand my struggles and provided me with effective coping strategies. The therapy sessions have made a significant positive impact on my life, helping me regain focus, improve productivity, and boost my self-esteem. Tema Therapy is a game-changer for anyone seeking assistance with ADHD.

Emily R

Tema Therapy has been an essential part of my journey in overcoming anxiety disorders. The therapists are empathetic, patient, and highly skilled in providing the right tools to manage anxiety effectively. The sessions were tailored to my specific needs, and the techniques I learned have been instrumental in reducing panic attacks and daily anxiety levels. While there's always room for improvement, I can confidently say that Tema Therapy is a place where anxiety disorders are truly understood and addressed.

Jason L

Tema Therapy has been a ray of hope in my battle against depression. The therapists here create a warm and nurturing environment, allowing for open and honest discussions. Their compassionate approach helped me feel safe while exploring the root causes of my depression. Through their guidance and evidence-based techniques, I've experienced significant progress in my emotional well-being. Tema Therapy is a beacon of light, reminding us that recovery from depression is possible.

Samantha H

Tema Therapy provided me with invaluable support during the most challenging period of my life—grieving the loss of a loved one. The therapists demonstrated exceptional empathy and understanding, creating a safe space for me to express my emotions and navigate the complexities of grief. Their expertise in grief counseling helped me find healthy coping mechanisms, allowing me to gradually heal and honor the memory of my loved one. Tema Therapy is an oasis of compassion during times of profound loss.

Daniel M

Tema Therapy has been instrumental in unlocking my true potential despite learning disabilities. The therapists here possess an in-depth understanding of different learning challenges and provide personalized strategies that cater to individual needs. Their patience, encouragement, and innovative techniques have empowered me to overcome obstacles and succeed academically. Although progress can take time, Tema Therapy has proven to be a transformative resource for individuals with learning disabilities, offering a path towards brighter futures.

Olivia K

Frequently Asked Questions

Have more questions? Email us at [email protected] for further queries.

Have more questions?
Email us at [email protected] for further queries.
Do you take insurance? How can I afford therapy?

Tema Therapy Center does not directly work with insurance companies, but our patients who have health insurance with out-of-network benefits usually get reimbursed by insurance providers in amount equal 60 to 70% from the cost of treatment. We are providing all necessary forms for these reimbursements.  The majority of our therapists offer sliding scale sessions for those who are in true financial need. We also have therapists-in-training whose fees are substantially lower and who work under supervision of our highly experienced professionals. In other words, we strive to make therapy affordable for many.

What if I believe that my child has unusually high IQ? Do you do Gifted and Talented Testing? Does it make sense to check out if my child has unusual academic abilities?

Some parents may have a sense that their child has unusually high intellectual abilities or very above-average aptitude in one or more academic areas. Frequently, such parents have a pretty accurate perception of their children. We provide testing that is helpful in figuring out if your child is eligible for many accelerated programs that were developed for children who show very high intellectual aptitude in one or more areas of cognitive and academic functioning. For example, the parents may initiate an application process for the John Hopkins Center for Talented Youth if they have the required results of the cognitive testing that is performed at our Center.

It should be noted, however, that in New Jersey, a consideration of the child’s eligibility for public school Gifted and Talented programs is done based on the following statement: “District boards of education shall make provisions for an ongoing K-12 identification process for gifted and talented students that includes multiple measures, including but not limited to, achievement test scores, grades, student performance or products, intelligence testing, parent, student and/or teacher recommendation, and other appropriate measures.” (State of New Jersey Department of Education)  

All in all, it does make sense to know where your child might be intellectually as it is very helpful for the children to be provided with a level of stimulation appropriate to their abilities and academic aptitude.

Me and my partner/spouse are having difficulties in our relationship. But will you be able to understand what can be happening in a _______couple like ours ?

(fill it the blank, the couple who have been together for eternity; a couple from mixed background; gay couple, poly-amorous couple, a couple of friends; a couple who is dealing with chronic illness)  At our Center, we take into account your cultural backgrounds and your histories of previous relationships, all of which have direct impact on your current issues. It is possible to cite a long list of different approaches to couple’s and family counseling that are utilized by our specialists, but it would be sufficient to say that we tailor our approach to your relational needs, while having YOUR goals for this relationship in mind.

We also do multigenerational work, which, when necessary, may involve extended family members, and blended families.

Family work is difficult, quite messy, occasionally loud and unruly. Yet we feel very privileged to work with your family in order to create more balance and satisfaction for each family member. All types of couples and families are welcome!

Do you work with normal people who are having some small or temporary issues?

There are times when nothing seems to be moving forward, when you feel “stuck”. This is especially true for anyone, going through a transitional period regarding health, school, job, family, or retirement. This may happen to young adults, to individuals with certain limitations in their lives, and even to organizations.

If any of the above applies to you, it is time to reassess your history, dreams, and talents; refocus on what is most important to you now, and how to make it happen.

To assist you, our Center is offering the facilitation of Person Centered Planning developed by Beth Mount & Kay Zwernik in 1988 and used nationwide since.

As a result of Person Centered Planning:

You will see yourself from a different perspective

Recognize your desires, interests, and dreams.

Find ways of turning your dreams into reality.

Receive tremendous support in gaining control over your life.

Increase opportunities for becoming a valuable member of your community.

Person Cantered Planning is a process with multiple steps and various tools.

Do you work with children, including very young children?

We are unique because we go where the child is. One of the forms of parental counseling is conducted by our child psychologist at a child’s home. As we all know, many problems start when children are very young. However, when you bring a baby or a toddler to a doctor’s office, the parent-child interaction will be artificial and not very informative diagnostically. That is why we do home visits when there is a need to access specific dimensions of the delicate relationship between a very young child and a parent. This way, our recommendations concerning the cornerstones of future development – the routines, the details of environment, and the quality of the bond between the child and the caregiver – will be very specific and family-tailored.

Our psychologist is highly experienced in working with children of all ages and backgrounds, and is dedicated to providing personalized care that meets the unique needs of each child and family. Whether your child is struggling with social anxiety, peer relationships, or other social challenges, our psychologists and therapists will work closely with you to develop a tailored treatment plan that fits your child’s specific needs.

We understand that seeking help for your child can be a difficult decision, which is why we offer a compassionate and supportive environment that prioritizes your child’s well-being. Our psychologist is trained in a variety of evidence-based therapeutic approaches and techniques, and will work with you and your child to identify the best strategies for achieving positive change.

Information About Free Consultation

Don’t wait any longer to help your child reach their full potential. Contact us today to schedule a consultation and learn more about our unique approach to child psychology.

In order to find the therapist who will be the most effective in helping you resolve your issues, we provide a 15 min free over the phone consultation with the director of the center, Dr. Irina Volynsky who will help you clarify your needs and set you up with the best therapist for your situation.

Medical information on this site is provided solely as an informational resource and should not be used  for professional diagnostic or treatment purposes. Always consult your healthcare provider before making any healthcare decisions

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