Marriage Counseling NJ & NY

Strong Resume, Shaky Relationship? You’re in the Right Place

It is hard enough to be a successful, accomplished, flexible, open-minded, and self-aware individual. Did I mention happy? Now, try to find a good match for such an individual. Hard enough, isn’t it? Try to keep the relationship healthy and strong at all times…ok, some of the time. Now, throw a couple of kids into this equation. Now, how do you feel? And what about that sense of inner balance and peace? If it is still there, you are a superhuman and definitely not one of us. The rest of us stumble and stagger, trying to find our way through the complicated maze of relationships. We differ in the number and intensity of relationship conflicts we experience daily, though.

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About TEMA Therapy

TEMA Therapy offers diagnostic and testing services for anyone who wants to learn more about their symptoms, identify possible causes, and get guidance on their next steps.
Contact us today to schedule a consultation and learn more about our unique approach to assessment and testing.
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Not Just for Crisis: Counseling for Every Stage of Your Relationship

On one end of the continuum is the relationship that is burdened by battles and acute dissatisfaction from the initial stages, yet people stay together for a variety of reasons. On the other end of the same continuum is a strong and healthy relationship with only mild glitches that can be improved by a few counseling sessions. There are also all sorts of possible scenarios in between, which can be enhanced, helped, and even sometimes, saved by a timely, tactful yet candid professional intervention.
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We Don’t Treat “Couples” in General. We Treat You Two.

At our Center, we take into account your cultural backgrounds and your histories of previous relationships, all of which have a direct impact on your current issues. It is possible to cite a long list of different approaches to couples and family counseling that are utilized by our specialists, but it would be sufficient to say that we tailor our approach to your relational needs, while having YOUR goals for this relationship in mind.

From Grandparents to Stepkids: Multigenerational Therapy Under One Roof

We also do multigenerational work, which, when necessary, may involve extended family members and blended families. Family work is difficult, quite messy, occasionally loud, and unruly. Yet we feel very privileged to work with your family in order to create more balance and satisfaction for each family member. All types of couples and families are welcome!
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Flexible Therapy Options: In-Person or Virtual Counseling

At TEMA Therapy, we know that convenience and comfort matter. That’s why we offer both in-person and virtual marriage counseling options. Studies show that virtual therapy is just as effective as in-person sessions for addressing relationship issues, making it a convenient and accessible choice for couples with busy lives. Whether you prefer face-to-face interactions or online sessions, our goal is to provide high-quality therapy that fits seamlessly into your routine.

OUR STAFF

Meet Our Therapists

Dr. Irina Volynsky, PhD.

Clinical Director

Specialty: Clinical psychologist working with adults, children and families. Testing and Therapy

Licenses: New York, New Jersey PSYPACT

Languages: English, Russian, Ukrainian

Dr. Emile T. Berk, PhD.

Psychologist

Specialty: Clinical psychologist performing testing for adults, adolescents, and children.

Licenses: New York, New Jersey PSYPACT

Languages: English

Irina Bashkirov, LPC

Licensed Professional Counsellor

Specialty: Adult and child therapy. Group therapy for adults

License: Licensed Professional Counsellor

Languages: English, Russian, Hebrew

Andrew Roetman

Supervised Therapist

Specialty: Therapy and testing performed under the supervision of clinical director

Languages: English and Spanish

Natalia Rowe, CCC-SLP

Language and Feeding Specialist

Specialty: Speech-Language/Disphagia Therapist, PROMPT Therapist

Licenses: New York, New Jersey 

Languages: English, Russian

Amaury Hernandez

Behavioral Conditioning Coach

Specialty: Sensory Integration, Emotional Regulation, Competitive Sports Training

Certificates: Personal Trainer, Sensory Integration, Parkour

Languages: English, Spanish

Zhanna Beyl, LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Worker

Specialty: Psychotherapist working with teens, adults, couples, and families 

Licenses: New York, New Jersey

Languages: English, Russian

Katya Chizhova, LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Worker

Specialty: Psychotherapist working with the elderly and people with acute and chronic medical conditions

Licenses: New York, New Jersey

Languages: English, Russian

Darina Konstorum, APC

Associate Professional Counsellor

Speciality: Psychotherapist working with children, teens, and adults. Group therapy for adults.

Licenses: New Jersey

Languages: English, Russian

Tamara Kapustina

Coaching

Specialty: Health & Wellness Family Executive functioning Coach.

Languages: Russian, Ukrainian, English (Intermediate)

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Who benefits from our service?

I can't thank Tema Therapy enough for their incredible support in managing my ADHD. The therapists here are compassionate, knowledgeable, and understanding. They took the time to truly understand my struggles and provided me with effective coping strategies. The therapy sessions have made a significant positive impact on my life, helping me regain focus, improve productivity, and boost my self-esteem. Tema Therapy is a game-changer for anyone seeking assistance with ADHD.

Emily R

Tema Therapy has been an essential part of my journey in overcoming anxiety disorders. The therapists are empathetic, patient, and highly skilled in providing the right tools to manage anxiety effectively. The sessions were tailored to my specific needs, and the techniques I learned have been instrumental in reducing panic attacks and daily anxiety levels. While there's always room for improvement, I can confidently say that Tema Therapy is a place where anxiety disorders are truly understood and addressed.

Jason L

Tema Therapy has been a ray of hope in my battle against depression. The therapists here create a warm and nurturing environment, allowing for open and honest discussions. Their compassionate approach helped me feel safe while exploring the root causes of my depression. Through their guidance and evidence-based techniques, I've experienced significant progress in my emotional well-being. Tema Therapy is a beacon of light, reminding us that recovery from depression is possible.

Samantha H

Tema Therapy provided me with invaluable support during the most challenging period of my life—grieving the loss of a loved one. The therapists demonstrated exceptional empathy and understanding, creating a safe space for me to express my emotions and navigate the complexities of grief. Their expertise in grief counseling helped me find healthy coping mechanisms, allowing me to gradually heal and honor the memory of my loved one. Tema Therapy is an oasis of compassion during times of profound loss.

Daniel M

Tema Therapy has been instrumental in unlocking my true potential despite learning disabilities. The therapists here possess an in-depth understanding of different learning challenges and provide personalized strategies that cater to individual needs. Their patience, encouragement, and innovative techniques have empowered me to overcome obstacles and succeed academically. Although progress can take time, Tema Therapy has proven to be a transformative resource for individuals with learning disabilities, offering a path towards brighter futures.

Olivia K

Frequently Asked Questions

Have more questions? Email us at [email protected] for further queries.

What is Marriage Counseling NJ and how can it help our relationship?

Marriage Counseling at TEMA Therapy helps partners gain a deeper understanding of their relationship dynamics while addressing the underlying issues that create distance or conflict. Couples learn practical coping skills, communication strategies, and ways to support each other through life’s challenges. Many couples also use marriage counseling sessions to strengthen their emotional connection before problems escalate.

Is couples therapy only for relationships in crisis?

No. Couples therapy is helpful at every stage of a relationship. Some partners come in with clear relationship issues, while others want a safe space to improve healthy communication or reconnect after life transitions. Even strong relationships benefit from working with a licensed therapist who can guide you toward better problem-solving skills and increased relationship satisfaction.

What should we expect during the first session?

Your first session focuses on understanding your goals, history, and the relationship challenges you want to address. Your clinician will help both of you feel comfortable and heard, creating a foundation for open discussion. This may also include reviewing any trust issues, emotional distance, or stressors that affect how you relate to each other.

Do you offer family therapy as well as couples counseling?

Yes. Family Therapy is available for multigenerational households, blended families, and families experiencing conflict. A Family Therapist helps each family member express concerns in a safe space while improving communication and conflict resolution. Family sessions support personal growth, emotional well-being, and healthier interactions across the entire system.

Can therapy help with specific issues such as anger, intimacy concerns, or communication problems?

Yes. Our clinicians are experienced in addressing a wide range of relationship issues, including anger management, intimacy issues, communication issues, and emotional distance. Therapy sessions help couples develop healthier coping skills and a clearer understanding of each other’s needs.

Do you provide Premarital counseling for new clients preparing for marriage?

Yes. Premarital counseling helps couples explore expectations, strengthen communication, and build tools for long-term relationship success. This process gives partners a deeper understanding of each other while reducing the chances of future conflict. Many new clients use premarital sessions as their first step toward a strong foundation.

Can Marriage Counseling NJ help if we are dealing with life transitions or external stress?

Absolutely. Couples often seek support during life transitions such as parenthood, career changes, or caring for a loved one. Our licensed therapists help you work through these shifts while keeping your emotional connection intact. Marriage therapy can also support you when mental illness, health issues, or substance use in the family affects how you communicate or care for each other.

What if our concerns involve complex family patterns or multigenerational issues?

TEMA Therapy offers multigenerational treatment that can include extended family when appropriate. This approach supports conflict resolution, family conflict repair, and stronger emotional support among members. It is especially useful when underlying issues from past relationships influence how partners relate to each other today.

Is online therapy available if we cannot come in person?

Yes. TEMA Therapy offers convenient online therapy for couples and families. Virtual counseling sessions provide the same quality of care as in-person visits, allowing partners to work on relationship challenges even with busy schedules or distance between them.

Can therapy help us rebuild trust and improve emotional connection after a difficult period?

Yes. Many couples come to therapy to work on rebuilding trust, repairing emotional distance, and learning how to support each other in healthier ways. A couples therapist guides you step by step, helping you restore emotional connection and strengthen the partnership.

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